Today is a happy day–it’s mine and Mr. Sargent’s 11 year anniversary! Our wedding anniversary is in July, but January 14th is even more special to us, because it’s where it all started; the day MJ asked me out in our friend’s basement after school. We’ve always felt like the wedding is just a formality, a piece of paper, maybe even a fun excuse to throw a party. What we value most is the time we’ve shared growing up together and honestly, just hanging out and laughing. I love that we started our relationship at 14. I never had time to idealize love or put expectations on what I thought love should be. I met MJ, and it just was.